The concert I didn't see and more ...
I wasn’t going to include this piece at all, but it is the only way I have of bringing attention to this.  
I
 have back-to-back concerts the middle of November. I am excited about a
 weekend away and a day off from school on Monday. I head out to 
Patchogue, Long Island, for a “Night of Doo Wop” with Lou Christie, Jay Siegel’s 
Tokens, The Toys, Manhattan Skyline and The Capris. The problem in 
Patchogue is there is no parking. I circle for an hour and am half hoping
 to grab a parking spot as someone leaves. However, so are at least 20 
other cars. We move through four municipal lots and metered parking spaces.
 The show has now started and I am still driving around. 
After missing a
 half hour of the show, and realizing this is not going to have a happy 
ending, I head back to the hotel. I am crushed! I found out later that 
the same thing happened to others ... no show for them either. The worst 
thing I heard was that the performers had the same issue. They had to be
 dropped off at the stage door and then someone else, usually their 
merchandise people had to drive around looking for parking. Two staff 
members made it in at the intermission. 
This now eliminates Patchogue 
Theatre for the Performing Arts as a venue I can support. We have spent 
much time and money in the Northeast repairing and re-establishing these
 theatres so that these fantastic performances can continue in beautiful
 historic surroundings. I am sorry to forthcoming performers I planned 
to see here. I cannot buy tickets, pay for hotels and gas and just turn 
around scared and defeated. Now I know better.  
The Buckinghams at Daryl’s    
The
 next morning I head off the Island to Pawling, NY, where The Buckinghams
 are appearing at Daryl’s House. I love Daryl’s House! Not the show. I 
don’t have cable. I love the dinner club Daryl’s House. The food is 
gourmet, but not showy and the shows are close up and personal. Besides 
which I am having dinner with Marty Sanders of Jay and the Americans. 
Dave Zane, lead guitarist of The Buckinghams also plays with Jay and the
 Americans, and Marty lives close enough to come see him. Apparently 
Marty goes to Daryl’s quite a bit. I enjoy the drive to Pawling. I enjoy
 the town atmosphere which is reminiscent of my own upbringing and still
 I say to Daryl, “WHY PAWLING?” 
Dinner
 listening to Marty’s stories and enjoying the company of two others at 
the table makes this a winning night. Of course, all I could talk about 
was Forgotten Hits. (smirk!) Actually, we covered many topics but they all
 somehow linked to music. The other couple did not know who Marty was so
 when he mentioned something about “his group”, they naively asked, “Oh,
 who is your group?” It seemed like a forever pause until he said 
quietly, “Jay and the Americans”. “YOU’RE KIDDING ME!!” an obvious, 
shocked reaction. He just looked at her, and I responded, “No. He’s not 
kidding.” 
The
 Bucks came on the stage which was so close to us I could have gotten in
 their way trying to stand up. WOW! What a show! The video camera was 
running and a side screen showed a very flattering angle and bright 
lighting. As in person, the camera gave the impression this was a 
concert in someone’s home. The Buckinghams are “courting the audience” 
in this up close and personal setting. I am curious as to whether the 
performers here are enjoying this intimacy or whether they prefer a 
large theatre with distance between them and the audience. But as Carl 
sings ‘Worst That Could Happen’ while standing next to the table and 
looking at me, it was hard to stifle the girlish giggles that I felt. 
Each of The Bucks had leads in songs and tributes to the “Sorta Happy 
Tour” (which Carl and Nick are joining again this year) intertwine with 
the great hits of the Chicago sound that marked The Buckinghams. Ending 
was difficult, good-byes expressed sincere joys spent together and 
then … I’m gone.  
Herman's Hermits Starring Peter Noone and the end    
My
 last concert this year includes a return to The Wolf Den for Herman’s 
Hermits starring Peter Noone. A friend of mine and Beatle DJ, Ken 
Michaels, had planned on coming but didn’t make it. Of course he figured
 he knew what the content of the concert had been so when I told him 
about the added Christmas songs and Vance wearing an elf suit even tho’ 
this was technically not a Christmas show, his reaction was, “Now THAT 
was a show I would have liked to see, and I missed it.” Well, I watched 
it from the outside looking in. I was to have a seat inside the Den but 
when I arrived, my seat had been given to someone else. There was no way
 I could have gotten there sooner. School ended and I took off, arriving
 around 5:00 pm. The line to get in to the Wolf Den was longer than the 
available, non-reserved seats. I met a friend at the slots and we parked
 ourselves around the corral to stand. OK! A new way to view a concert! 
The people outside the Den watching are free to be who they really are. 
Which means dancing, flirting, asking questions, yelling at the stage in
 anonymity, and just being joyful. I counted 29 song titles in this hour
 and a quarter set. Herman’s Hermits hits, songs not as often sung 
(Jezebel, Bus Stop, Dream On), Christmas songs (Oh Holy Night, The Sex 
Pistols' version of Jingle Bells, Rudolph) and cover songs all filled the
 casino and wafted out to us listening on the edge. The sound was much 
clearer than I would have thought, and except for my feet falling asleep
 and my needing to shift my legs, it is worth doing again. There were 
many tender musical moments and for me, it was a perfect end to my 2018 
concerts. December was enough for me to handle. I will begin again in 
2019, and who knows just what will happen. It is a new year! 
-- Shelley J Sweet-Tufano
Daryl's House sounds absolutely amazing ... would LOVE to be able to see a show there some day!
I asked Carl Giammarese to share a few words about it as well ... our East Coast Readers would do well to check this place out! (And please report back when you do!) kk
Hi Kent,
I will say we enjoyed playing there very much. We were coming from playing an Englewood NJ, concert with Peter Noone at the Bergen PAC. Once you get out of New Jersey and past New York City, it becomes very scenic and beautiful passing through parts of Connecticut and getting to up state New York.
Darryl’s Place is kind of rustic and maybe holds 100 people at the tables in front of the stage, and maybe another 80 at the bar. We are always excited to play to an intimate and enthusiastic audience. It’s always fun to see an audience so up close with such a great response. They really knew the Buckinghams and our music, and showed their appreciation. Like I’ve said so many times before, we are so blessed to have such loyal fans all over the country. A great evening ... the only thing that could have made it better would have been if Darryl Hall would have shown up and sat in with us. Great fun!
Carl Giammarese
The Buckinghams
  
Daryl's House sounds absolutely amazing ... would LOVE to be able to see a show there some day!
I asked Carl Giammarese to share a few words about it as well ... our East Coast Readers would do well to check this place out! (And please report back when you do!) kk
Hi Kent,
I will say we enjoyed playing there very much. We were coming from playing an Englewood NJ, concert with Peter Noone at the Bergen PAC. Once you get out of New Jersey and past New York City, it becomes very scenic and beautiful passing through parts of Connecticut and getting to up state New York.
Darryl’s Place is kind of rustic and maybe holds 100 people at the tables in front of the stage, and maybe another 80 at the bar. We are always excited to play to an intimate and enthusiastic audience. It’s always fun to see an audience so up close with such a great response. They really knew the Buckinghams and our music, and showed their appreciation. Like I’ve said so many times before, we are so blessed to have such loyal fans all over the country. A great evening ... the only thing that could have made it better would have been if Darryl Hall would have shown up and sat in with us. Great fun!
Carl Giammarese
The Buckinghams